Include ALL of us or none of us. ALL disabilities should be involved in your advocacy. including the "non-trendy" ones.

Disability Is Morally Neutral. Being disabled does not mean you cannot have a fulfilling life. Disability is not a character flaw. Disability is not a dirty word. But, importantly, it's also not a thing to be taken lightly. Ultimately, the disabled person may describe their experiences as they wish, and it is up to abled folks to listen to our experiences and needs.

"Narc Abuse" / "BPD Abuse" Is ableist. People with mental illness are actually more likely to be victims than perpetrators. This terminology is dangerous, as it plays on centuries-old tropes of the mentally ill being predatory and violent.

And most of all... Vintage Style, NOT Vintage Values!!